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Islamic Honor Killing??? Whose Honor???
PostPosted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 8:48 pm Reply with quote
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There is a terrible tradition that has been ignored for so long we do not even consider the effect this has on the women of Islam. Honor Killing is a horror they live with each and everyday. It is said if a woman has been defiled she must die, the governments of many Muslim nations and even western nations do not even keep records of the enormity of this practice. They do not classify death by motivation therefore, there is very little statistical information on how rampant this practice is within our world.
If I am a pure Islamic woman who is raped, or falls in love with a man; my father brothers and uncles have the right to kill me then and there, with little or no repercussions.
In Holland in the early 2000's they took two districts where Muslim immigrants lived and tracked these killings for two months. In two months 11 girls were killed by their male family members; there are over 20 districts like this in Holland alone. what of the rest of the world?



"Honour" killings of women can be defined as acts of murder in which "a woman is killed for her actual or perceived immoral behavior." (Yasmeen Hassan, "The Fate of Pakistani Women," International Herald Tribune, May 25, 1999.) Such "immoral behavior" may take the form of marital infidelity, refusing to submit to an arranged marriage, demanding a divorce, flirting with or receiving phone calls from men, failing to serve a meal on time, or -- grotesquely -- "allowing herself" to be raped. In the Turkish province of Sanliurfa, one young woman's "throat was slit in the town square because a love ballad was dedicated to her over the radio." (Pelin Turgut, "'Honour' Killings Still Plague Turkish Province," The Toronto Star, May 14, 1998.)

Most "honour" killings of women occur in Muslim countries, the focus of this case study; but it is worth noting that no sanction for such murders is granted in Islamic religion or law. And the phenomenon is in any case a global one. According to Stephanie Nebehay, such killings "have been reported in Bangladesh, Britain, Brazil, Ecuador, Egypt, India, Israel, Italy, Jordan, Pakistan, Morocco, Sweden, Turkey and Uganda." Afghanistan, where the practice is condoned under the rule of the fundamentalist Taliban movement, can be added to the list, along with Iraq and Iran. (Nebehay, "'Honor Killings' of Women Said on Rise Worldwide," Reuters dispatch, April 7, 2000.)

adapted from: view the whole website my friends.
http://www.gendercide.org/case_honour.html

This is only the beginning, I am on a rant for sure... this must end in our lifetime, we can no longer ignore the suffering of our Muslim sisters....TG


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 18, 2009 8:07 pm Reply with quote
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*didnt  read  the  link  just  whats  posted  textwise  here*  tho  wouldnt  you  think  on  some  level  they  could  choose  to  incarnate  to  jearn  from  it?  --if  it  happened  to  one  of  my  friends  i  prollyt  would  be  devistated  by  it  an  all  we  need  ta  stop  it  leas  i  woulda  been  this  time  last  year--  i  know  in  japan  research  an  jus  watchin  some  shows  that  were  fansubbed  its  all  honor  bring  honor  to  the  family  name  an  that  maby  this  is  a  more  extreme  form  of  it?

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 3:05 pm Reply with quote
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biyu wrote:
*didnt  read  the  link  just  whats  posted  textwise  here*  tho  wouldnt  you  think  on  some  level  they  could  choose  to  incarnate  to  jearn  from  it?  --if  it  happened  to  one  of  my  friends  i  prollyt  would  be  devistated  by  it  an  all  we  need  ta  stop  it  leas  i  woulda  been  this  time  last  year--  i  know  in  japan  research  an  jus  watchin  some  shows  that  were  fansubbed  its  all  honor  bring  honor  to  the  family  name  an  that  maby  this  is  a  more  extreme  form  of  it?


It would be a good idea to click on the link biyu. I saw a 2 hour movie 10 or 15 years ago about it. Women being murdered because they were raped by their father or brother and were unclean for when they married a husband. Killed by their father or brothers, sometimes the ones that raped them.

These murderers only spending 6 months in jail if that, some never even seeing a trial, never receiving any punishment at all. Women being killed or mutilated because they were not in love with the man that their family picked for them, even if they never had sex with the man that they WERE in love with.

Women killed for running away from this life, even if the law got involved and made the families promise not to kill the women if they returned home. Returning home because they really had nowhere else to go and no education to be able to support themselves. Being killed within the first day or 2 that they were home, by cousins, brothers, fathers.

This is the "honor" that they speak of, biyu. What does one learn if they are dead? That they cannot love whom they wish? That they cannot learn in a school because they are below that? That they must die because the men in their lives can do what they wish with them then discard them like trash?
rant outta here


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 5:44 pm Reply with quote
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scout wrote:
This is the "honor" that they speak of, biyu. What does one learn if they are dead? That they cannot love whom they wish? That they cannot learn in a school because they are below that? That they must die because the men in their lives can do what they wish with them then discard them like trash?


hmm  
well  i  could  go  all  there  are  things  learned  even  in  death  but  i  dont  feel  much  like  that  approach  but  there  not  givin  the  chance  to  learn  its  pathetic  an  LOL  i  think  you  know  me  an  starry  i  think  you  know  my  thoughts  with  love  an  even  conformity  at  times  soo  think  freedom=good  

the  school  ugh  i  think  i  wanna  start  a  rant  THERE  if  given  the  chance  noone  ABSOLUTELY  NO--ONE  IS  BENEITH  school  morelike  schooling  and  its  lies  should  be  beneith  them  soo  yea  

an  as  fer  the  last  thats  why  i  think  a  matriarchial  society  would  be  better  tho  the  wrong  person  it  could  be  as  bad  bascally  a  case  of  men  at  there  worst  but  then  LOL  whats  it  say  bout  the  women  who  pratically  ARE  guys  in  many  cept  physical  respect

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and on
PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 9:56 pm Reply with quote
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Most Muslim women are given minimal education if at all, they are taught the qur'an by rote and taught never to question. i know it seems petty, especially by today standards, and this is just another part of Islam that the western world chooses not to see, for the sake of religious tolerance, but this IS A HUMAN RIGHTS ISSUE! All people have the right to live without fear of oppression, to love as they see fit and to make a better world for those who follow. This was islamic law since 600+/- AD over 1200 years of honor/death. for who?
TG
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Re: and on
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tarotgirl wrote:
Most Muslim women are given minimal education if at all, they are taught the qur'an by rote and taught never to question. i know it seems petty, especially by today standards, and this is just another part of Islam that the western world chooses not to see, for the sake of religious tolerance, but this IS A HUMAN RIGHTS ISSUE! All people have the right to live without fear of oppression, to love as they see fit and to make a better world for those who follow. This was islamic law since 600+/- AD over 1200 years of honor/death. for who?
TG


I sense that Patriarchal Society has seen its time come to an end. I believe it is a time for balance. Comments?

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2009 9:05 pm Reply with quote
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That day may indeed be near but is probably a long time coming as most patriarchs are the ones in power. With brave people like ayaan making a big difference in what we choose not to see now a days and of course people like Theo Van Gogh (may he rest in peace) who gave/give even their very life's breath to invoke change maybe it can be sooner than later...TG
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scout wrote:
I sense that Patriarchal Society has seen its time come to an end. I believe it is a time for balance. Comments?


you  are  SOOO  not  alone  there  thio  i  also  think  it  time  the  brainwashing  end  too  an  yea

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dream on
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and i say this with a heart of gold because i know dreams come true, if we all dream hard enough it will be a reality....TG
the women will change this, not the men. When we all stand as one and scream enough is enough, no man will have sex or dinner til is done! and I say to them tough 30,000 yrs have passed by where men have ruled as women toiled we must return to the balance when all work together for humanity not manity.
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yet  you  look  huMANity  or  woMAN  prolly  outhers  too  but  leas  with  english  there  ingraned  oh!  HIStory  yea  im  kinda  past  the    but  meh  *needs  time  reviving  endangered  species  ion  zoo  tycoon2  ta  relax  an  return  to  the  kid  mood*  an  yea  LOL  there  too  stubbourn  an  hard  headed  ta  see  that  they  may  be  dooin  more  harm  then  good  but  then  im  like  that  too  so  i  dont  know  if  i  specifically  would  be  a  better  replacement  tho  i  think  a  more  unified  approach  rightnow  nmay  be  better  but  maby  im  thinkin  strangely  i  mean  look  at  the  "animals"  which  the  human  species  (tg  remember  whoos  sayin  this)  seems  to  place  itself  "above"  hmm  elefants  live  awhile  i  think  bout  as  long  as  us  an  they  have  a  crazy  good  memory  i  mean  the  matriarch  knows  where  ta  go  an  they  if  im  right  actuallyy  kinda  mourn  outher  elefants  (dead  ones)  that  they  pass  by  or  how  about  dolphins?  more  matriarch  concidered  smart  mamals  look  at  seaworld  i  mean  really  all  that  there  trained  ta  do  an  stop  by  the  seceret  garden  see  what  they  can  do  too  duchess  can  "tell"  any  outher  not  to  listen  to  the  trainers  if  im  right  (trainer  fer  a  day  2x  at  mirage  duchess  is  the  matriarch  of  that  pod--ythink  there  called  pods?)  still  look  what  they  can  figure

an  LOL  wolves  (shoulda  figured  id  mention)  theres  an  alhpa  male  an  alpha  female  sometimes  one  or  another  sometimes  a  daughter  may  kill  her  father  to  become  an  alpha  (growing  up  wolf)  point  is  much  of  the  time  as  i  know  its  more  a  shared  duty  (sidenote  wolves  only  the  alphas  mate)  an  that  sharing  may  help  with  a  balance  too  

really?  humans  are  above  animals?  i  think  theres  much  to  be  learned  from  those  you  place  youreself  above  if  theres  a  single  person  you  think  youre  better  then  ask  youreself  why  you  think  youre  betyter  then  them  shure  could  be  different  skills  but  how  i  see  it  as  people  were  same  level  (even  me  har  an  kitten  are  the  same  level)

edit  ok  i  went  ot  smack  me  idf  yall  like  incorperatin  afew  of  my  thoughts  in



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